يعيش في أسرة صينيّة

هو كان واحدة شيء أن يعمل مع الناس صينيّة, يتلقّى صديقات صينيّة وزبونات صينيّة, غير أنّ عاش واحدة من ي أكثر يغني خبرات كان كعضوة من طبقة وسطى صينيّ أسرة.
 
لاثنان سنون, زوّجت أنا كان إلى رائعة, جميلة وناجحة [شنغينس] امرأة أعمال, [ميشلّ], الذي تلقّى ابنة [سفن-ر-ولد].

كلّ أنا كنت قد سمعت حوالي ويقرأ حول الثقافة صينيّة, كان أنا يمكن أن يختبر من الداخل. أسرة, صديقات وصحة حالة وعي [إينتغرل برت] من ثقافتهم.
 
هناك ما من [نورسنغ هوم] في الصين. يأمر فلسفة [كنفوسن] العلاقة بين الإبنة ووالده. هو توقّعت أنّ رعى الإبنة والده في شيخوختهم. غرفة رصدت لالاحتلال نهائيّة من والده متبقّي في الإبنة إلى البيت. بسبب ال [أن-شلد] سياسة, بنات قرأت الإستراحة من "الصين فصل ثمانية: الصين يعيّن خبرة" أو تعليق

[إرني] [تدلا]

طعام مهمّة في كلّ ثقافات, غير أنّ في الصين, يلعب هو دور قصوى كالأداة لوجه و [غنإكسي].

عمل يأكل حيث [غنإكسي] يكون أسّست. أن يحصل أن يعرف آخر شخص وأن يبني ثقة, يأكل معا ضروريّة. The Chinese don’t eat at their desks, and they don’t rush out to the nearest fast-food joint. It is a specific time for talking and getting to know the other person. Typically, business is not discussed. That’s done during the many business meetings.

The business banquet is the pinnacle of guanxi building, celebrating, and or honoring guests. Read the rest of “China Chapter Seven: Dining in China” or post a comment

Lovy and I were high-school sweethearts and were married for forty-three years before her untimely death. She had worked and put me through university and contributed mightily to the financial stores of our maturing family. This adventure allowed her the opportunity to retire from being a certified dental assistant and enjoy a totally new life, and China, which she did.

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By Ernie Tadla

About Lovy

Lovy and I were high-school sweethearts and were married for forty-three years before her untimely death. She had worked and put me through university and contributed mightily to the financial stores of our maturing family. This adventure allowed her the opportunity to retire from being a certified dental assistant and enjoy a totally new life, and China, which she did.

Lovy Catherine Edinger was her official birth name. Her father, Phil always wanted a daughter with that name. Of course, her name always got attention. Imagine sitting in your dentist’s chair receiving your regular check-up and the dentist says to his assistant, “Lovy, please pass the suction tube.” What thoughts would go through your mind? At work, Lovy was called Lee.

When at a party or shopping in a crowd, instead of me calling her name out loud, we had a signature call, “Yoo hoo” that she responded to, knowing I was looking for her.

When we met new people who reacted to her name, I would suggest that it was her name that was an important factor in our long-term, stable and happy marriage. In any normal relationships, there are times of anger and frustration as was in ours. I found it difficult to Read the rest of “China Chapter Four: A Wife in Shanghai” or post a comment